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Are you “bad” at dating? Where has your spark gone? Are you practicing self love?
Meet Lilli Bewley
Lilli Bewley is a Dating Coach with over 10 years of experience in personal development. She, herself, went from just surviving in life to thriving in love & purpose. Currently, she is helping women who are single & struggling to date with confidence so that they too can find epic, magnetic, extraordinary love with their soulmate. Lilli is on a mission to educate people on how dating can be fun again after a divorce or even in their 30s, 40s & even if they’ve been single forever.
We have the ability to create magnetic energy in our dating lives even if we have to perform & be high achievers in other areas of our lives. After over hundreds of coaching hours, her LOVE Method & DATE with Authenticity Framework guides women to finding the fulfillment & joy in the dating process and in finding their person.
Visit her website here and claim your free gift. Follow her on Instagram.
In This Podcast
Summary
- Having everything doesn’t mean anything
- Emotional trauma
- Finding epic love
Having everything doesn’t mean anything
How many of us have “everything”? House, car, kids, job, the whole kit and caboodle. Are you in love or has that fallen short? Many of us have let people into our hearts that should never have been there in the first place. We like the idea of the individual more than were actually compatible with them for the sake of saving face. Checking off the list isn’t as important as you’d think. A lot of people look good on paper. But, can you really be with this person forever? Sure, they’re tall, dark, and handsome but, what if that’s all they are?
Emotional trauma
Emotional trauma is something we’ve been through that we haven’t yet processed. It’s what’s holding us back. We have to change our thoughts to change our lives. It starts with healing from the root cause. And knowing isn’t enough, we have to deal with it and it’s scary but being scared is what’s keeping us in these self sabotaging patterns. Know your worth! You have to love yourself first right? Well, do your actions, behaviors and beliefs line up with that? You have courage when it comes to other people, but what about for yourself? Have courage, it’s an act of self love. Realize there is a better way and be open to it. It’s not about what you do in dating, it’s about who you choose to spend your time with.
Finding epic love
Some of us can’t self select what our root causes for self sabotage are and that’s where Lilli comes in. It may hurt but it is what will help you in the long run. Lilli speaks from personal experience. She has been through it first hand, and knows what isn’t going to work. For example, “just having fun” leads nowhere, you’re selling yourself short. Just having fun isn’t you and it’s almost like you’re not really being yourself in order to keep someone else around. It’s all about authenticity, be who you are, be confident. If you aren’t enough for someone, too bad. The last thing you want is to repeat the past. There is a better way.
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Meet Melissa Vogel
Melissa Vogel is an energetic keynote speaker, business owner, certified personal trainer, certified group fitness instructor, 1st degree Black Belt in Tae Kwon Do, a mother of three, and a podcaster.
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She is quickly becoming recognized for her expertise and influence in her field!
Melissa has contributed to numerous publications and has been featured in the Trail Blazer Magazine, and published in the April 2020 edition of Health Magazine. Her approach incorporates personal experience, energy, humor, and charisma.
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